Infertility and Miscarriage
I’ve been there, too.
So many of us, at some point during the day – even if just for a millisecond – flashback to the heaviest shattering to ever happen to our heart. The hurt can be crippling or paralyzing, but it shouldn’t be alienating.
Connection is therapeutic.
Don’t suffer alone.
Grief, when shared, is divided and not multiplied. Chances are you carry some heavy secondary emotions and tendencies – guilt, jealousy, disconnection, obsession, control issues, or anger. These are normal. They are welcome here.
Maybe you told your close group of girlfriends and your mom about your loss. Maybe they had helpful words, or maybe their words stung. Certainly, they tried their best, but you’re still left wanting more. Where do I go from here?
Jesus grieves.
Sadly, too often the faith community doesn’t know what to do with us. There may not be a place for you to bring your aching heart within the walls of your church, and separating your miscarriage or infertility journey from your faith feels inauthentic and is in fact destructive.
Now is not the time to simply “move on.” Jesus grieves with you, and I do, too.
God allowed me to experience unexplained infertility, a round of failed IVF, and a miscarriage so I could come alongside other women and lead them to the feet of the One who can heal.
I will help you process your grief and find your firm footing on ground that can feel so shaky. In order for beauty to rise from the ashes of your grief, you must do the work of processing through excruciating loss, and I’m here to lead you through that process.
Testimony from the trenches.
Last summer, I went through one of the deepest emotional pains I ever endured after suffering two miscarriages. I didn’t know where to turn or how to take the next steps forward in healing. I reached out to Caitlin who helped me, guided me, and gave me a true, real and raw spiritual support that carried me through this incredibly dark time. Through it all, she continued to point me back to Jesus and my relationship with Him grew in indescribable ways. I will always be grateful for the support that Caitlin provided me that, at first, carried me to the next hour, then to the next day, then to the next week, month, and beyond. Today I am a month away from delivering a healthy baby girl and I hold in my heart the wisdom and encouragement that Caitlin gave me through the lowest of times.”
“Connection is why we are here. We’re hardwired to connect with others,
it’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives and without it there is suffering.”
– Brene Brown